JUN 16, 25.. WEBLOG (BLOG).. SENIOR MOMENT.. MISSING FRIEND..

If.. maybe I need to write IF .. because it is the BIG IF..

But IF someone was going to begin a Weblog (Blog) and they were to ask me for one (just 1) suggestion it would be this:

Read Julia Cameron’s book: The RIGHT To WRITE..

A long time friend Brad told me about her book and I remain forever grateful.

Near the very end of her book, on page 223, PROCRASTINATION, she writes: 

When we start to write, we prime the pump and the flow of ideas begins to move. It is the act of writing that calls ideas forward, not ideas that call forward writing.

So a writer just sits down and begins to write!

Again thanks Brad and Julia.

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A VERY DISTRUBING SENIOR MOMENT

Now that I have actually begun to write here, the other day I experienced a very worrisome, call it bothersome, call it dangerous, Senior Moment.

I have reached that state of life where, very often, people either ask me if they can assist me, or they just actually assist me (opening doors, etc).

I pulled up to our local Post Office to check our mail. Parked our Suburban. I got out and, cane in hand, headed for the door. A man opened the door for me and, holding the door open he said to me: “Sir! Is that your smart phone on the ground beside your truck door?”

It was indeed my smart phone on the ground. I have absolutely no idea how I dropped my phone on the ground getting out of my truck. I strive to always have it in its case that is on a strap over my shoulder / neck to avoid just what happened!

NOW THE REST OF THE STORY..

Kathleen, who lives alone, is one of our longest, nearest and dearest friends, one who dates back over three decades, who was following us years before we started dotnet, one who comments often here on dotnet, has suddenly disappeared.

Last week Patti texted her. No reply. This is a friend who always replies at least within 6 hours if not instantly. Two days later I texted her. No reply. Then we called her and left her a voice-mail message. No reply.

?? Did she lose her Smart Phone? Without her smart phone (in her words) she can’t possible remember the phone numbers in her Contacts (nor could we nor could YOU!). Without her smart phone I doubt she can access dotnet here.

We have written her a snail-mail card hoping she is physically O.K. A senior like us, she does have some serious health challenges. So we hope she is alive and receives our card. 

Lastly! Patti has a family member who lives 15 minutes from her. He will attempt to go to her home and do a wellness check. 

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By The Way. Our website has a Menu that shows you how to contact us.

First, you click onto the three, parallel, horizontal lines to the right of the word Doxology. See them?

When you click onto the Menu the below screen comes up.

Click onto Contact Me.

The way to contact us appears.

For What It’s Worth.

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Tonight? Monday Night June the 16th. On ABC at 8:30PM Eastern time, The Indiana Pacers go into Oklahoma City to play the Thunder in Game 5 of the NBA Championship Finals. The series is tied 2 games each.

Smiles .. Cap and Patti

6 thoughts on “JUN 16, 25.. WEBLOG (BLOG).. SENIOR MOMENT.. MISSING FRIEND..

  1. Gullible

    I often joke that my frequent posts (comments, photos, shares, etc,) on Facebook is my “proof of life” bulletin board.

    Monday was rainy so I made a spur of the moment decision to go to Anchorage, and didn’t tell anyone.

    Shortly after I got home, there was a knock at the door. It was my friends Mary and Shawn. They had come to check on me or “collect the body” as Shawn said, because I had neither posted on Facebook nor responded to messages through Facebook Messenger.

    Mary did not have my cell number, which is turned on only when I want to use it. So, for me, Facebook works. 😎

      1. Cap Chastain Post author

        So do we Ginny. Kathleen, living alone with some serious medical challenges and then “disappearing” is indeed concerning. Thanks for your caring and concern Ginny. Cap and Patti

    1. Cap Chastain Post author

      Gullible, first, as far as we know (but we are not 100% positive) Kathleen IS active on Facebook. The point is, Facebook or other social media platform, she has completely dropped out of sight for Patti and me. THAT is very concerning to us.

      HOW NICE, how VERY SPECIAL, that YOU have friends who were immediately concerned about you when you were not active on Facebook, and who then actually visited your place to check on you. Nice. Cap and Patti

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